The Unexpected Way To Win Any Argument

The Unexpected Way To Win Any Argument – PsyBlog – Jan 2017

Don’t just contradict them — try a more radical approach. Extreme agreeing could be the answer to getting people to change their minds, psychological research suggests.

The natural reaction when arguing with someone is to contradict them. However, showing people a very extreme version of their own deeply held opinions can make them think again.

It seems that the absurdity of extreme agreeing helps to foster a rethink.

Being underhand, the method is fraught with dangers, though. Here are a couple:

  1. That the experiment backfires and people really believe the paradoxical messages they are receiving.
  2. People will not repeatedly expose themselves to information that is so antithetical to their strongly held beliefs.
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